“He broke up with me..” .
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.”Hannah, why can’t a man take me seriously? I think there’s something wrong with me…”
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.There’s nothing wrong with you! You need not change yourself either just so a “man” will see your value as a woman. . .at times, we are in transports of insecurity whenever we are rejected~ or when we are not reciprocated. Our eyes is half open, half close to those we think are “worthy” of our love…we give our all..
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.not realizing, our love cup is not being filled up again..
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.we question our worth in the process—we grieve…we hold on to that tiny hope, that maybe if I do this, he will “acknowledge” me. He will take me seriously.
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.STOP! DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME, EFFORT, and WRONG EMOTIONS— to those who are only there to play around— wait, how do I know if they are only there to play around?

Well, they pretend to like you but they really don’t. They will try to please you but taking you places, give you flowers, or even buy you something that you may like… but they will never take their time to get to know you. They might ask you a little bit but they will not take interest to anything about you in a deeper level.. they seemed interested and they will try smooth talk you— phrases like, you are hot, you are gorgeous, you are beautiful, you are pretty,. These are all nice to hear but very temporary. They mostly acknowledge what they see in the visible rather than the invisible. Stay away from these men!They are not worth your time and definitely not worth investing your emotions.

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Those who are genuinely like you or in love with you, will only see the good in you. Will choose you. Will not try to change you…will commit to you! Will take interest in you. Will take interest in your family, your likes, dislikes, and will envision himself as part of those that you enjoy doing.
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.with this person, you don’t have to make an effort. You just have to be YOU…

and he will still LOVE YOU…

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